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Ex’s Lie About a Hole in Our Condo Wall Was Just One More Way He Made Me Doubt Myself

A woman shares the lie her ex told her about a hole in their condo wall, asking if the gaslighting will ever end.

By mitch·4 min read
A woman holds her phone up to show a hole in the wall of a condo.

Kristen, who runs a TikTok channel called lil_tachy, has a new story about her ex-boyfriend Quinoa. And this one involves a hole in the wall of the condo they lived in together. The story has drawn more than 43,000 likes and 255 comments, and it has everyone wondering whether Quinoa ever told the truth at all.

The story is simple. Kristen found a hole in the wall of the condo she has now, and Quinoa blamed her brother. He said her brother made the hole while he was on probation. That was enough to make Kristen believe him at first. But when her aunt came to check the property after Quinoa moved out, she had footage showing the hole was not there before they moved in. Quinoa had lied, and her brother did not put that hole in the wall.

Discovery of the Hole

The story starts with the discovery of the hole. Kristen found it while she and Quinoa were living together in the condo she has now. When she asked him about it, Quinoa said he had nothing to do with it. He blamed her brother instead.

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The timing of the hole mattered. Before Kristen and Quinoa moved into the condo, her brother had called it home while he was on probation. He could not find a place to live, and their aunt bought the condo to rent to him. During his time there, he punched a hole in the wall. So when Quinoa said the hole was her brother’s doing, Kristen believed him.

The Breakup and the Evidence

But the story takes a turn after the breakup. When Quinoa moved out, Kristen’s aunt came to check the property. She had footage showing the hole was not there before they moved in. That meant Quinoa had lied. His brother did not actually put that hole in the wall.

The evidence showed the hole was not there before they moved in. Quinoa knew that. He still blamed her brother.

The Reaction Online

The video drew a strong response from Kristen’s followers. One commenter wrote: “Girl I know this is such a serious subject matter and I hope I’m not being insensitive but damn. you’re actually so effing funny, the intro killed me and we really do be both laughing and crying during this series.”

Another person wondered if Quinoa watches the videos or knows about them: “I wonder if Quinoa watches your videos.” People replied, hoping that he had.

“Will the gaslighting never cease with this man?”

The question captures the feeling of the whole thread. Quinoa’s lie was not a small mistake. It was a deliberate attempt to pin blame on someone else.

Everyone Wondered if Quinoa Ever Told the Truth

The question of whether Quinoa ever told the truth came up again and again in the comments. One person asked bluntly: “Did that boy EVER tell the truth? Like…ever????”

Another commenter thought her brother’s behavior was just as bad as Quinoa. “I’m sorry but your brother punching a hole in the bathroom wall of your generous aunt’s condo and not patching it up before leaving it is very disrespectful imo,” they wrote.

The story has a serious side. A hole in a wall, a brother on probation, an aunt who bought the condo to help him — these are real things that happened to real people. But the way Kristen tells it, and the way her followers react, treat it as something closer to a comedy of errors.

The Pattern of the Story

The story follows a familiar shape:

  1. Discovery of a problem.
  2. The partner blames someone else.
  3. The evidence later shows the partner was wrong.
  4. The partner gets caught.

That shape is common in stories of this kind, and Kristen’s version adds a twist by involving her brother. The pattern holds even when the details change.

Trust and Lies

The story also raises questions about trust. Kristen believed Quinoa when he blamed her brother, even though she knew her brother had punched a hole in the wall. She believed him because he said it, and that belief lasted until she saw proof to the contrary.

The story is a reminder that lies can be small or large, and that the people who tell them often expect to get away with them. Quinoa did not expect his lie about the hole to be exposed. He expected Kristen to believe him, and he expected the story to end with her brother taking the blame.

The story is based solely on @lil_tachy’s account of her experiences with her former boyfriend, as shared on TikTok.

See the video the story is built around at The Daily Dot.

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